Today I feel like sharing MY own opinions about the subject of this blog, sex.
I believe I am not the right person to tell anyone not to have sexual relationships; I have no control over your decision, and it is a decision that must be analyzed by only yourself and your partner.
Lets speak with the truth, as much as your parents and teachers tell you not to have sex, it only makes you more eager to experience it. This blog is not meant to tell everyone “Sex is a disease, don’t do it!”, because that is definitely not what I believe its right. I started this blog to open your eyes and warn you that sex is not all about pleasure, it has its consequences.
One of the consequences is pregnancy, and then comes abortion. I am 100% against abortion. If a teenager is “responsible enough” to make decisions and be involved in sexual relationships, then aren’t they capable of taking care of a child?
You can disagree with me, but my opinions will never change.
Guys, whatever you do, never regret any decisions. (Except killing a baby, THAT you will regret for the rest of your life)
If after having sexual relationships you feel like it was a wrong decision, do not regret it. Everyone will learn something from his or her experiences, obviously I am not saying that you will learn only about sex, but you will learn something about yourself, and you may grow as a person.
If you have any questions about me, please ask.
Soon I will be posting more frequently asked questions and answers. If there is ANY SUBJECT you want me to talk about, or post information about it, TELL ME! and lastly, I love to hear back from you guys, tell me if you like the blog, and if you think it is missing anything.
Valen.
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6 comments:
I think your blog is fantastic! I love your sincerity and your quest to talk about a subject that is usually a bit taboo.
I love your blog and I love that show, and it's thanks to your blog that im 100% against abortion. I think your blog is the best one because it's about a topic that really relates to all of us, and that we all have opinions on.
Hey Valentina.
Although I completely respect your opinion and I do see and understand the negative aspects of abortion, I also believe that it is a very open end subject. Let’s face it, at the age of 16 what kind of life would you be able provide for a child? My guess is that if doing it alone, not a very good one. Not in all cases would a parent support their teenager. If she were to decide to keep the baby, there could be a potential for bad parenting and ultimately leading to the destruction on a child’s life. And in worst case scenarios, what is a teen was raped? She would then have to carry the child of a man in which would have caused her so much pain. And not to put it in such harsh terms, but this child would almost be a burden... a constant reminder of such a horrible past. So you see, it’s a very delicate subject. There are many different things that could tip the whole abortion vote one way or another. But, I did really enjoy your blog (:
Dear Laura:
I completely understand what you mean, and I also respect your opinion. Hoewever, in a case where rape is present, or the mother is too young, I would refer to ADOPTION instead of ABORTION.
There are many parents out there that WANT a baby but unfortunately, it is impossible for them. Would you rather kill a child, or give it to someone who can offer good parenting skills and lots of love?
I believe abortion is a very sensitive topic to discuss. I am also against abprtion and do not agree with taking anyone's life however I am not 100% against it. In certain cicumstances I believe abortion may be justified. For example as Laura said if someone is raped I think abortion may be the right way to go. There are many cases in which children end up in abusive or neglectful homes after being adopted. You just never know. So if a child who becomes pregnant at a very young age, not from being careless themselves, but from another cause abortion can be the right thing to do.
I totally agree with you!! I'm against abortion 100%. If someone was responsible enough to make the decision of having sex with or without protection they should be responsible enough to accpet the consequences instead of killing a baby.
I really enjoy your blog.
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